Baby News

Many people are interested in my labor and delivery story because they know I have a high tolerance for pain. So here it is:

When I was 35 weeks I got my 1st pelvic exam and was told I was dilated to 1 1/2 cm and had lost my plug already. I don't think we asked any other questions because the doctor seemed so shocked that this was happening already.

At 36 weeks I was dilated to 3 cm and was 75% effaced. My doctor was out of town this week so we were seen by the nurse practitioner. She told me I was progressing evenly with my numbers and she thought I'd have a smooth delivery. Well that's good news!

At 37 weeks I was dilated to 4 cm, 80% effaced, and she dropped between a 0 and -1 station. My doctor finally realized at this appointment that I must have a high pain tolerance because when he did the exam I made no facial movements of it hurting. Also, I haven't really felt any pain the whole time I've been dilating. He told me I would probably have a pretty smooth and quick delivery. He said he hoped we'd get to the hospital before the head started coming out, lol! So now I'm a little nervous wondering if I'm even going to be able to tell I'm in labor or not. So I start tracking my contractions just in case, which is hard because most of the time I can't tell if I'm having one or not...

Week 38 I was the exact same. Boo! At this appointment my doctor said "How would you like to have a baby on Saturday?" To which we said "Ok." So it was set to have them break my water.

Saturday, June 30, 2012 we get to the hospital at 8 am. They show us to our room and have me get into a gown. Then we sit there for about an hour until the RN finally comes back. Then she tells me I was set to get plutosin and I said no! It's not my due date and I'd rather wait for her to come on her own than get that crappy medicine. I say crappy because I hate medicine :) So she calls the doctor and he says he's on his way to break my water. In the meantime we called our RN friend Allison and she came to the hospital to help Michael and I. 10:30 am rolls around and my water finally gets broken. Nothing happens...so we play Guillotine (thanks Allison)!

Finally Allison asks if I can walk around and the RN said for 20 minutes. So we start walking. About 2 minutes later I start getting contractions. Lucky me, I have back labor contractions. So every few minutes I get contractions, we stop in the hallway and my coaches help me breath. It still hurts. I feel like my contractions are every 3 or 4 minutes. I start second guessing myself thinking I'm not going to be able to do this naturally. What if I'm only at a 5 and my contractions are this close and painful? I won't have the energy to push her out! So I tell them I'm done walking because it wasn't helping my pain.

We go back to the room and I try the workout ball. That was a big fat no. That hurt worse. They check my progress and I'm at an 8! I get renewed energy thinking that I WILL be able to do this. Michael starts massaging my lower back through my contractions and yells in my face keeping me on track with breathing. If he didn't do this, I would have lost it!

I get through many more contractions and start feeling a very strange feeling. I realize this is probably a feeling of needing to push. I tell the nurse and she calls the doctor. She checked me in there somewhere and told me I was at 9 cm. Holy cow! The doctor comes in and tells me I can push when I feel the need. Thank goodness!! So I push and push for about 45 minutes. The actual pushing was not painful but the doctor's hands up my vagina the whole time was pretty uncomfortable. I did 3 or 4 pushes in a row for 10 seconds each. The 1st two pushes were the easiest and then the next ones were harder. I guess I was pushing with my face but I couldn't figure out how to ease that tension so now I have broken capillaries all over my face.

The doctor said she's having a hard time coming out and needs a little help. Do I want an episiotomy or the vacuum? Allison said I wanted the episiotomy so I said ok. 2 pushes later at 4:53 pm Lorelai May Oliver was born! She weighed 6 lbs 12 oz, was 20" long, and had a full head of hair!

Allison said she was sucking already so she wanted me to try breastfeeding. Lorelai hooked right on! How exciting! She is super strong already lifting her head and shoving her hands in her mouth so you have to pull hard to get them out. My mom said I was the same way.

Welcome to the world and our family Lorelai!!

Random Naturalistic Things

I've been thinking recently about all the random naturalistic things I've learned about and thought I'd share.

1. Vicks Vapor Rub (I don't know if this counts as naturalistic, but it's better than taking pills, right?): cures nail fungus. Apply at least every other night with a Q-tip onto base of nails until nails have grown out. Also for coughs, rub onto feet and wear socks.

2. Onions: cures ear infections (and helps drain when you have a cold, sinus infection, etc.). Take a white or yellow onion, cut in half, microwave in wet paper towels for approximately 1 min. Replace paper towels with new ones. Place each half of onion on an ear and wait about 5 minutes.

3. Garlic: cures athletes foot and helps prevent colds. To cure athletes foot: boil garlic in water for 2 minutes. Wait for water to cool then soak your foot in water for 5-10 minutes. Repeat as often as necessary.
                To prevent colds: microwave 2 cloves for up to 1 minute. Peel off skin and eat. This actually does not taste disgusting. It does make your breath smell like garlic though. You can do this every day. (garlic is an immune booster)

4. Vinegar: what doesn't it do? Use it in your dishwasher instead of detergent. It not only cleans your dishes but prevents your dishwasher from collecting calcium buildup.
                   Use it to clean any surface in your home: toilets, counters, etc.
                   Spray some onto your cutting board before cutting onions to help prevent you from crying.
                   Mix it with baking soda to make a stain remover for your clothes.

5. Baking Soda: is a deodorizer. Sprinkle onto your carpet, let sit a few minutes and then vacuum it up.
                           Mix with Hydrogen peroxide to create a stainless steel cleaner.
                           Use to brighten your teeth when brushing.
                           Sprinkle some onto your armpits to use as a deodorant.
                           Put 1/2 - 1 Cup into your laundry to freshen and deodorize your clothes.

6. Apple Cider Vinegar: cures heart burn and acts as a fruit fly repellent. Drink 1-2 tbsp of apple cider vinegar every day to cure heart burn.
                           Put vinegar in a container and wait for flies to collect around it.

I don't know if this next bit is "naturalistic" but these are random food things I've learned.

7. Beans: beans can actually replace oil or butter in baking recipes. Whole mashed beans replace butter and pureed beans replace oil. Use the same amount of beans as the recipe wants butter or oil.

8. Ground Flax Seed: Mix 1 tbsp flax seed with 3-4 tbsp water and wisk. This replaces eggs in baking recipes.

9. Blending frozen bananas turns it into an ice cream texture but is just banana! Blend with peanut butter or chocolate for a frozen treat!

That might be all I can think of for right now. Hope you find this information as exciting as I do :)




                   

Activity Days Recognition Night

Upon looking for an activity to do for activity days, I came across the part where twice a year they are supposed to have a recognition night. Seeing as I've been doing AD for over a year and have never done a recognition night, I thought, oops! So I started planning. Here's what I came up with!

Family Olympics

We had 4 olympic events: Javelin Throw
                                          Balloon Ring Toss
                                          Relay Race
                                          Long Jump

When people walked in they needed to "register" which just required taking a pre-made necklace that had 4 sections, one for each event. Once they completed an event, a number or a sticker would be put into a square.

Then each team took about 5-10 minutes to come up with a name and make a team banner. We taped these up onto the side of the stage.

The Javelin Throw was made with poster boards. I cut the shapes of a circle, square and triangle. The circle was worth 10 points, the square 5, and the triangle 15. The javelin was a pool noodle. They had to throw their javelin through one of the shapes to get points.

Balloon Ring Toss had 5 balloons filled with helium. Each balloon was worth a different amount of points. Their rings were small hula hoops. They had to throw the hula hoop and get it around one of the balloons. (I forgot to take a picture.)

The Relay Race was the easiest. Everyone on the team had to run a lap around the gym carrying a light-up stick then pass it to the next person on their team. When they were done they got a sticker. (I forgot to take a picture.)

The Long Jump was marked with tape. The jumping distance started at 3' and went up to 12' in 1/2' increments. (I forgot to take a picture.)

Once the olympians were done, we had our award ceremony. They stood on a step stool in front of the torch, got a gold medal, and were spotlighted for what they have accomplished.

Then we enjoyed some fruit, pretzels, and tootsie pops for our refreshments! This activity was a success and the whole family sure had fun!

Tippy & Kids

I've had many people ask me how I think Tippy will do with Lorelai. I always tell them the same thing: Tippy LOVES kids, adults, and other animals. I used to babysit different aged kids and she loved them all.

This is Libby. She was 3 or 4 when I babysat her. Her favorite thing to do with Tippy was to tell Tippy to stay and then take a handful of dog food and lay them in a row. Once Libby was finished lining them up, she would tell Tippy ok and Tippy would eat the food Libby had laid out for her.

Libby put lots of Tippy's toys on her. Tippy didn't care.

They were good friends.

Tippy likes to sneak in kisses :)

I babysat Jeremy who was just a couple months old. Every time he made any noise, Tippy was right next to him making sure he was ok. This did accompany sneaking in kisses too. This picture is Jeremy and Tippy taking a nap together. He wore her out. 

These ones are when she was younger. She's just so cute I couldn't resist!!

One thing about kids that Tippy doesn't like are things that roll: bikes, strollers, etc. SO it will be interesting to see how she reacts to Lorelai's stroller. I wonder if she'll get used to it?

Mexican Lasagna

SO I made Mexican Lasagna for dinner and it was A-mazing!! So I thought I'd share:

Sauce: 2 cloves garlic, minced
            1 onion, diced
            1 red bell pepper, diced
            -Simmer these in a sauce pan with a TBsp olive oil until soft
            Add 2 cans diced tomatoes
            1 can diced green chiles
            A handful of cilantro, chopped
            If you like meat you could add probably 1 lb of hamburger or ground turkey then I would add a   Tbsp ketchup

Layer: Black beans
            Corn
            Colby Jack cheese
            -I had these ready and added as much as I wanted. Michael and I love beans and corn so we did quite a bit of each and a thin layer of cheese.

I put a bit of sauce on the bottom, covered it with tortillas, more sauce on top, then black beans and corn and colby jack cheese and more sauce. Then cover with tortillas, more sauce, black beans, corn, and cheese. Then tortillas and sauce and I would recommend cheese on the very top if you like more cheese.

Bake at 400 degrees for 30 minutes and enjoy!

PS The tortillas absorb some water and get sort of noodley soft. So if textures creep you out, use lasagna noodles instead :)

Lorelai's Room

One awesome thing about having an early baby shower is that you can decorate the room much earlier!! So we did. Here's some pics of the room...so far.

 The full shot.

 The crib.

 The toys. Tippy likes the room too!

 The "dresser." We didn't want to get a real dresser. 

 A chair, a bouncer, some decor and other things.

The wall hangings that go with the crib set. Cute huh?!

Baby stuff

SO....I haven't updated my blog. Sorry!

In vitro worked! We are pregnant with a girl and due July 5th. We are excited! To those who are curious: in vitro was not horrible. The shots were really easy to give myself and didn't hurt. I never got emotional over stupid things and never really felt any different. But I am weirder than most people, so it may have been worse than I could feel. I have a high tolerance for pain.

We are naming our daughter Lorelai May. May is a mixture of the grandma's names: Darby and Margaret. It is extremely hard to use a lot of letters from Darby :)

I went to Vegas and had a baby shower there. It was tons of fun! I got into town late Wednesday night/early Thursday morning. Woke up. Went to Big 5 to get new sunglasses. Went to Home Goods and TJ Max to try and find a pot for the centerpiece I wanted to make. Then we went to eat at Grand Lux with my dad. Then we went to the chiropractor. Then we went to get my mom's sewing machine fixed. Then we went to Michaels. Left Michaels because they had nothing cool. Went to Hobby Lobby where we wanted to buy the whole store! Bought the stuff I needed for decorations. Went home. Started working on the decorations. Was too tired so went to bed.

Woke up at 6 am. That's right. 6 am! I was irate. Dad was off this day so we went to the bank and then we went to Costco. Got lots of goodies. Went to In N Out. Oh yeah. I've been missing it! Went home and started making food and decorations for the shower. Got to see Amy and Jeremy. Got to see my brother Jeremy and Rachel and Isis and Elise. Yay! Rachel helped me finish the decorations. Then went to The Orleans to eat at the buffet with cousin Heidi and her mom. Pretty sure my belly grew that night. It seemed enormous on Saturday!

The centerpiece I made from a picture on Pinterest. It turned out cute, I think!

 The Martha Stewart pom-pom flowers I made out of tissue paper. Super easy and cute!

 The bag game. You get to open more presents. Who wouldn't like that??

 The food!

 Some guests! Serious contemplation is needed for the bag game.

Belly shot! Ask and you shall receive. 

Woke up at 6:30 am. Really?! Did my hair, finished the food, hung up the decorations, said hi to the family. Then crazy time started. I haven't seen the people who came to my shower for a year. I had to personally talk to each one for at least 3 minutes. I never really got to sit down or eat but it was fun to see everyone, fun to open presents, and fun to pack it all up! Then Heidi and I went to some stores, went to DI, went to Walmart. Got home at 11:30 pm and went to bed at 12 ish.

Woke up at 6:45 am. Went to church at 8:30 am. Said hi to my peeps. Went to Capriotti's and got the Capistrami (oh man it was delicious)! Got Heidi ready to leave. Said bye. Took a 2 hour nap. Got up. Had family dinner with my brother Chris and Sarah's family and Jeremy and Rachel's family. Rachel is due with girl/baby #3 on July 7! Fun huh? Picture was taken with my crappy phone camera. Sorry. But it shows sister and sister-in-law due 2 days apart! Went to bed earlier.

Woke up at 6:45 am. Went to the Green Valley Ranch breakfast buffet. It was only $4.99 a person! Then my mom and I went maternity clothes shopping. Got me some cute stuff. Went and said hi to my old work. Went home. My friend Lindsay came over and said hi. Then I went to Michael's mom and sister's house. We ate and talked. Fun times. Then I went home. Went to bed.

Woke up at 7 am! Packed up all my stuff. Went to the temple to see Sarah get her endowments! I'm glad I was able to be there! Went to some stores to return things that wouldn't fit in my suitcases. Went to Poppy's Frozen Yogurt with Eve and her kids. My mom kicked us out the door so I wouldn't be late to the airport. Now I see where I get it from. My flight was delayed due to the wind. Could have stayed with Eve longer. Finally went to the airport 2 hours later than planned. Got home at 2 am. Michael came in and helped me with my 3 bags of presents! Got home and quickly looked through everything then went to bed at 4 am.

Fun. Busy. Good times.